Sometimes the best you can do is work on you. Don't give up trying to find answers. The more questions you ask, the more likely you will come across answers that you were waiting for, not always what you wanted.
The best I could do was continue my education. It has answered more questions about mental illness than that of the mental health workers that try to help but that just can't remember everything and so their answers might be piecemeal.
So, educate, educate, educate! Whether it is at the library, the internet or even better going to school, education has answered the most questions that I had than any other avenue. I try to provide as many answers as possible in my blog, but I understand it may not answer everything and for that I am sorry, I will try harder.
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